Turning Darkness Into Light: A Journey of Reflection, Gratitude, and Resilience

 

Dear friends, colleagues, and readers,

Life has a way of catching us off guard, shifting our perspective when we least expect it. For many years, I dedicated myself wholeheartedly to teaching, sharing knowledge, and pushing boundaries in workshops across the globe. Recently, at ATK9 in the USA and Detection Madness in Switzerland, I gave my best, as I always strive to do. Yet, behind the scenes, I found myself taking small breaks between lessons, plagued by a persistent and growing stomach pain.

When I returned home, I visited my doctor, who quickly referred me to the hospital. There, I received the news that no one is ever prepared to hear: an aggressive form of cancer had already spread throughout my body.

The initial prognosis was devastating—I was told my time left could be measured in weeks. But within that overwhelming despair, my medical team discovered a 1% window of opportunity for treatment. Against all odds, that sliver of hope became my anchor. Subsequent tests revealed the treatment was working. The aggressive chemotherapy is attacking the cancer cells, though it comes at a cost, impacting my healthy cells as well.

For the next six months, my life will be centered around intensive chemotherapy and, if successful, an extended period of recovery. I am required to stay in quarantine as much as possible, avoiding public places to protect my weakened immune system. This has forced me to make difficult decisions, including canceling all my workshops planned for 2025. However, this journey is not just about survival. It’s about transformation and rediscovering what truly matters.

A Shift in Perspective

When confronted with the shadow of death, life takes on a striking clarity. The things that once seemed all-consuming—stress, competition, disagreements—suddenly fall away. It’s as though mortality pulls the lens back, allowing us to see the bigger picture. In this space, forgiveness comes more easily. Old grievances lose their power. Instead of dwelling on past conflicts or mistakes, we find ourselves focusing on the connections that have brought meaning and joy to our lives.

I’ve spent countless hours reflecting on my relationships, my work, and the fleeting beauty of life itself. I’ve asked myself: What would I want to be remembered for? What moments truly mattered? The answers are simple: kindness, love, and the impact we have on others.

Lessons From the Battle

This experience has been nothing short of a seismic shift in my life. It has tested my physical and emotional strength in ways I never imagined. Yet, it has also deepened my understanding of resilience and gratitude. Every day, I am reminded of life’s fragility—and its brilliance. The moments that sustain me now are not grand achievements but small acts of love and connection.

See the photo, my working cocker spaniel, has been my constant companion. Usually a whirlwind of energy, she now lies quietly on my stomach for hours, as if she knows where it hurts. Her intuitive comfort is a powerful reminder of the deep bond we share with our dogs. Then the photographs of me at 17, the youngest NATO military diver at the time. That image reminds me of my fighting spirit. It serves as a visual mantra: I’ve fought hard before, and I will fight hard again. But the battle isn’t just about me. It’s about sharing what I’ve learned in the hope that it inspires others to live more intentionally.

Living Fully in the Present

We often delay what’s most important, assuming there will always be time to make amends, express gratitude, or chase our dreams. My diagnosis shattered that illusion. Time is immeasurably precious, and none of us knows how much we have left.

Here’s what I’ve come to realize:

1. Tell Your Loved Ones How Much They Mean to You.

Don’t wait for a “special occasion.” Every moment with those you care about is a gift. Say the words, give the hugs, and create memories now.

2. Let Go of Negativity.

The world is full of division, from petty social media arguments to deeply entrenched polarizations. Imagine how much more fulfilling life could be if we approached disagreements with curiosity instead of judgment.

3. Focus on What Truly Matters.

It’s easy to get caught up in the hustle of life, chasing success or perfection. But when you strip away the noise, it’s the simple joys—shared laughter, a heartfelt conversation, the warmth of a dog by your side—that stand out.

Turning Challenges Into Opportunities

While my health has forced me to step back from in-person workshops, I’m not disappearing. My online shop, detectiondogshop.com, will remain open, thanks to the unwavering support of my incredible wife Jolanda and our wonderful son Rick. They’ve taken on the responsibility of running the shop, ensuring that it continues to serve our community with care. On my good days, I’ll be working behind the scenes, bringing to life some of the ideas I had envisioned for 2025. This gives me hope and purpose, even on the toughest days.

A Call to Action

This journey has taught me that even in the face of adversity, we can choose how we respond. I’ve chosen to see this as an opportunity to connect with others, share my story, and encourage you to embrace life fully.

Here’s my challenge to you:

• Reach Out: Call someone you haven’t spoken to in a while. Reconnect with an old friend.

• Be Kind: Replace judgment with empathy, especially in online spaces where misunderstandings can escalate quickly.

• Live Intentionally: Whether it’s pursuing a passion, spending more time with family, or simply savoring the present moment, don’t wait.

Looking Ahead

If all goes well, I hope to see many of you in 2026. Until then, I ask for your patience and understanding. While I may not respond to messages as quickly as I once did, please know that your support means the world to me. This battle has been a humbling reminder that life is a team effort. I am endlessly grateful for my family, friends, and community. Together, we can face even the darkest moments with courage and grace.

Thank you for walking this path with me.

With strength and gratitude,

Simon